Emily. 19. Chubby bunny. Sci-fi geek. Scrapbooker. Fatshionista. Panda. Whovian. Body positive. Modified. Obnoxious. Forgetful. Over-emotional. Friendly. Get to know me.
First off, I would like to state that I did not lose weight because I was unhappy with the way I was. But even if I did, that would have been my descision, and no one elses. Reasons matter less than how you go about it when it comes to weight loss. You could do it because you want to marry some random boyband star that you’ll never actually meet. But as long as you do it in a healthy and safe manner, what motivates you doesnt matter too much (obviously in certain situations this can be different but I mean general things like health, a boy, a cute outfit, and random things like that.).
Personally, I began losing weight not by choice, due to a progression of some stomach troubles I have. Basically, I have been having trouble digesting complex carbs and some denser foods, so I was on a liqud medical diet for awhile. This diet was an emergency situation and I was closely monitered by various doctors. I;m not exactly all better yet, but I have improved.
Since I have already gotten this far by accident, I have chosen to continue and try to lose a little bit more weight. I am doing this for my health because I have certain joint problems already and hope that if I can get healthier, I won’t have to worry as much about the future of said joints.
I could probebly go on and on about the pros and cons of weight loss and various things like that but I will not because it is not my place to tell anyone else what to do. Personally, I believe health is what matters, not appearence. Before my stomach issue, I was perfectly medically healthy, despite being 280lbs. Size does not have anything to do with health really. And if you are someone who is “unhealthy” then I am still not going to tell you what to do because I do not know you and it’s none of my damn business. If you’re happy, that’s all I care about.
I will not go out of my way to tell other people about my weight loss: I still feel uncomfortable talking about it because I have received alot of negitive feedback from people saying I am “turning my back on my fellow fatties” and that I need to stop saying I’m body and fat positive. But you know what? Fuck that. I am a proud fatty. And I am stillfat and body positive. I love people of all shapes, sizes, genders, colours, sexualities, and any other thing that a human can be. They are all wonderful.
Yes, I lost weight. Yes, I am still planning on losing more, but that does not change any of the above. And you have no right to judge me for my descisions, just as I have no right to judge you for yours.
So, with that being said, while I will generally not go out of my way to give anyone advice, tips, or info on how to lose weight, if you are somone who is doing so, and you would like to know about my experience, get any tips or info I may have, or if you just need someone to talk to or some support, you are more than welcome to come to me! I will certainly do my best to help you in any way that I can. I love new friends, and I do not mind listening to you vent your frustrations.
Now currently, my laptop is broken so I am using Tumblr from a broken desktop that barely works. But if you would like to add me on facebook so we can chat, send me a message and go right on ahead! And if you sent me any asks that I did not reply to, there is some weird parental block on here that we can’t figure out that prevents me from using certain features. So I promise I’m not ignoring you! Just resend the message to my facebook and I will answer when I see it!
Thanks so much and I hope you are all having an awesome Sunday!!!
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FYI: IF YOU ARE ADDING ME SO WE CAN CHAT AND BE SUPPORTIVE AND STUFFS I WILL NOT ACCEPT YOUR FACEBOOK FRIEND REQUEST UNLESS YOU MESSAGE ME AND ACTUALLY TALK TO ME. Generally, I see no point in befriending people I don’t know or talk to on facebook. So communicate with me! If we’re gonna be friends, we’re gonna do this shit right.