In The Land Of Gallifrey

Frequently Asked Questions.<3

Q: Where do you shop?

A. I shop all over. My style and taste ranges very widely depending on season, mood, occasion, and budget. Some of my fave places to shop are:

• Forever 21
• Wet Seal
• Torrid
• Alloy
• Delias
• Macys
• Target
• American Eagle Outfitters
• Victoria’s Secret
• TJ Maxx
• Old Navy
• Urban Outfitters
• Hot Topic
• Rockabilia.com
• Simply Be
• Fashion Bug
• Avenue
• Lane Bryant

Q. Will you skype/text/call me?

A. Probebly not so don’t ask. 

Q. What about sexting?

A. Definitely not.

Q. Will you trade pics with me?

A. No I will not. If you ask me, I will probably block you.

Q. What colour is you’re hair naturally? 

A. Naturally, I am a dirty blonde (no pun intended ;-D). Here is a pic!

Q. Why do you dye your hair?

A. Because I like the way it looks.

Q. Why do you modifiy your appearence?

A. Because I love the aesthetic of it, I find it very beautiful, and it makes me feel beautiful.

Q. Can I get to know you?

A. Sure. I like friends. But friends is the key word. 

Q. What about more than friends? If you got to know me, would you be willing to date me?

A. No I would not. I do not date people I meet on the internet. This will not change. So please don’t send me messages with the intention of courting/dating me. Because I will shut you down, or ignore you.

Q. You post alot of photos of yourself but also post about being insecure. It doesent make sense. Are you doing it for attention?

A. No I am not doing this for attention. I am human. Sometimes I feel pretty, sometimes I feel ugly. Sometimes I am confident, and sometimes I am not. It’s not something that can be predicted and it’s not something that is set in stone. If you don’t like it, don’t follow me.

Q. I disagree with some of your opinions and would like you to stop posting some things on your blog.

A. You can kindly fuck off. This is my blog. The key word being ‘my’. Not yours. If you don’t like what I post, than do not follow me. I am not forcing you to follow me or look at my posts. On the other hand, if something I post is triggering to self harm, let me know and I will remove it. But for everything else, I will just tell you to unfollow me and go away forever.

Q. Can you give me advice on how to feel more confident or learn to accept my body and myself?

A. I’m not sure if I can because self acceptance is something that can only come when you decide it can. But if you send me an ask, anon or not, I will certainly do my best to help you. I am always here to help my followers if they need someone to talk to.

Q. Do you believe in a higher power?

A. Not really. I think the idea sounds nice, and I envy people who are capable of putting their faith in a higher power, but I do not personally believe that one exists. I completely respect those who do believe, and I have nothing against them, I just don’t personally believe.

Q. Will you submit naked photos to my blog? 

A. No I will not and I will probebly block you for asking.

Q. What if it is a breast cancer blog, or a body acceptance blog?

A. Still no. If your blog really is meant to bring awareness to either of those things, you should not be trying to bully women into sending you naked photos for it. Telling me that I am a bad person or a prude will not change my answer. Yes, I do occasionally take and post revealing photos of myself, but this does not mean that I will send any to you.

Q. You post alot of photos of yourself but also post about being insecure. It doesent make sense. Are you doing it for attention?

A. No I am not doing this for attention. I am human. Sometimes I feel pretty, sometimes I feel ugly. Sometimes I am confident, and sometimes I am not. It’s not something that can be predicted and it’s not something that is set in stone. If you don’t like it, don’t follow me.

       Yes. I do post alot of pictures of myself on my two blogs, as well as my facebook and twitter accounts. Hell, sometimes I post over 30 in one day. But these blogs, and accounts belong to me and it is your choice to follow me. If you do not want to see my face, body, or the things that I have to say, than unfollow me. Because I will not stop posting photos. Do not send me a message asking me to stop posting photos of myself. It is my blog and I will post what I want. End of story.

        Second, there is a fine line between conceited and confident. Occasionally I am one, occasionally I am the other. Sometimes I am both simultaneously, and sometimes I am neither. I pride myself in being body positive and accepting myself. But that does not mean that I always do. What people do not realize is that self acceptance is not something you work towards, and then permanently achieve. It is an ongoing battle that constantly changes depending on hundreds of variables. No one loves themselves 100% of the time. I am only human. I have hormones and emotions and these change quite frequently and are beyond my control. Sometimes I love the way I look, and sometimes I hate it. But I pride myself on not giving up and I will always try to strive towards self acceptance and self love because I owe it to myself to love myself.

        So yes. Sometimes I will make posts saying that I feel gross, or feel ugly or unattractive. Because sometimes I do honestly feel this way. Everyone does. It’s part of being human. I’m not posting these things because I want attention. Sure, attention is nice and I enjoy the kind compliments people send me (who doesn’t like being told that they are beautiful and important?), but I mostly make these posts because it is how I feel at the time. And I use this blog to express the things that I feel. I also want people to realize that I am not some crazy permanently confident person. I am just a normal girl who is striving to be the best she can be while attempting to not let the world get her down.

        But then soemtimes I feel absolutly stunning and wonderful. And when I feel like this, I like to take pictures of myself. these pictures serve as reminders that I am beautiful, for the times I feel bad about myself. And yes,  I post these pictures. Very often, in mass quantities. But as I stated previously: If you do not enjoy seeing my face on your dash, unfollow me. I am not forcing you to follow me or look at me. That is entirely your choice.

Q. Can I add you on facebook?

A. Sure but I may not accept. Or I may accept and end up deleting you. I don’t see the point in having a ton of facebook friends that I don’t talk to. So if we don’t talk, you’ll get deleted.